Women, This is What You Should Look For in A Man

Waste no time if he doesn’t have these 5 Things..

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I am not a mind reader, but I do have a quite bit of experience hearing directly from women their countless number of complains about men.

It seems we are in a very seriously crisis when it comes to picking a right man at the moment. Men have been able to manipulate women’s way of thinking and made them picking a wrong partner which ended up in a state of despairs.

Well, You will come to understand my points very soon.

The first thing first, I have a bad new for you

Are you ready for it?

Well, the bad news is that, the amount of information you have when it comes understanding men doesn’t exceed 20% when comes to reality.

What does it mean? You don’t have enough quality information when it comes to picking the right partner. Confusing, right?

I told you it was a bad news.

But fear not, the good news is that I am going to give you a lot of tools you should have in your arsenal that will help you in deciding what kind of a man will be suitable for you.

Are you ready for that? Okay, Here we go..

This is What You Should Look For in A Man

1. A Bullet Proof Self Confidence

I’m telling you this for free, self confidence to a man is like oxygen to plants and animals. Nothing can stop a man with the right amount of self confidence, he is simply unstoppable.

You don’t need to date a loser, you need someone who is confidently enough, who can stand up and speak what he feels without a second thoughts, Someone who feels enough inside with zero regard to external views. He is a man not a boy.

Once you won’t consider this aspect you will end up dating boys with zero confidence which in turn will negatively impact your self esteem and bring in unnecessary insecurities which were not existed in the first place.

T. Harv Eker was right when he said:

“If you are insecure, guess what? The rest of the world is, too. Do not overestimate the competition and underestimate yourself. You are better than you think.”

2. Someone Who is A Leader

I feel sorry for women who overlook this aspect. My message to you is pretty simple, just do the opposite, attach to someone who is truly leader. You will go far.

When it comes to leadership successful women like a man who can take charge. You need someone who will always step in and guard you as her woman, giving you a clear means to solve your challenges and so forth.

You don’t need a man who will always wait to be directed on what to do. You don’t need a man who will always be behind your foot steps instead of staying upfront and guide you. Someone who can take charge and lead will be priceless to you.

3. A good Sense of Humor

You’ve probably asked yourself so many times, why funny men always been attracting quality women in their life times? my response would be very simple, nobody wants to date a robot.

If you will go out there and pick a robot then well, You are going to have a very roll coaster ride. It’s scientifically proven that men who don’t embracing being funny and witty are always ended up being a wrong partner.

A sense of Humor is needed armor. Joy in one’s heart and laughter in one’s lips is a sign that a person down deep has a pretty good grasp of life

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4. A1 Game in Listening

Trust me, no feeling can be better than the feeling of having someone who always gives you his ears and attention whenever you speak to him. This feeling is just a pure gold. It’s undefeated.

Women need to always being listened since they always can’t keep hide a lot of stuff going on in their lives. I would be very surprised if you won’t pick a man with good ears.

A man who will always give you his attention when you needed it more than most. How would you feel if this happened to you? Greatly, right?.

Therefore, You don’t need to pick a man who will constantly interrupting you after every five seconds. Yeah, 5 seconds there I said it.

If you do so then sorry to burst your bubble, it is not going to work for you. You will always feel not enough because you are going to miss this important component from your man.

5. Make sure He Passing Smartness Test

Long story short here, you should go for the one who dress nice and clean. First impression matters most in any relationship story.

When a man is smart and well dressed it gives you a clear picture that he is well organized and has higher level of calmness in his mind. Don’t pass someone with these traits without having a second thought on him.

Like they always saying, a well dressed man is a best accessory a woman can have. What I have really to tell you is that a man who dressing well will always have good manners, in most cases. Therefore you should not underestimate this aspect even for a single second.

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There is no common relationship formula that works for all but at least we have tried to highlight some basic components which make impossible for you to ended up pick a wrong partner.

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