Women, This is What You Should Look For in a Man.

jayhustler
3 min readSep 7, 2024

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I only said this recently, but I’m going to say it again,

I’ve come to realize recently that we have a very serious dating problem in this modern world.

The saddest part?

It has spread far across than pandemic.

Am I overreacting saying that?

Absolutely not.

Just close your beautiful eyes, think and you we will see my point.

The number of women who have been tanked by relationships is scary.

Why am I saying that?

It is simple…

I’ve been in the dating industry for years now, I know the scope of the problem.

I’m not a mathematician but if I have to count you the number of women that are struggling simply because of picked up the wrong partners, then I will count until Jesus Christ come back.

Now, let’s go back to business…

Are you a man hunting for tips on what you should look for in a woman?

If you answered yes, then dig in.

Apply these tips and tricks in this article and watch as the world starts doing double takes in your direction.

This is What You Should Look For in a Woman

Kindness

Let me tell you this for free…

If you want to excel in life the first thing you must look to a partner is his kindness.

Trust me, no feeling can be better than the feeling of having someone who is very kind and generous. The one who is not arrogant and rude.

This feeling is unexplainable!

Going to be brutally honest with you here, you can destroy your entire life by just picking up a partner who lacks this quality.

You read it right. Just don’t make that mistake.

Even for a second.

Kindness is the first chapter in a book called “Healthy relationship”

Don’t listen anyone telling you otherwise.

Emotionally Available

Many women out there despise this aspect but trust me, picking someone who is emotionally stable will take you very far in life. I have seen beautifully couples failed to move forward simply because of this.

You need someone who is calm and organized. A man that you can vent and feel secured. Not someone who will be disappear once things went south.

Having someone who’s emotional available is crucial since it boosts intimacy and feelings of trust in a relationship.

I don’t know how to explain it any better than this.

Sense Of Humor

Good sense of humor says a lot about him. Don’t listen to those who constantly say that you should not judge a book by its cover, you should always consider this stuff.

I’m a firm believer that : A man who is funny and witty is priceless when comes to solid relationship. Let’s have a moment of silence for those who prioritized dating robots!

A CBS News poll from 2010 found that a sense of humor was five times more important than sex when it comes to building a successful marriage.

Says Psyche in its article “Why it Takes Humor To Sustain a Long Term Relationship”

Confidence

As a woman if there is something special you need to look for in a man is his confidence.

Confused? Okay

Let me explain it to you clearly…

Pick someone who can stand up for himself & others, seize opportunities move like a real boss. Quit dating boys who can’t stand with their own two feet.

Sadly, We are living in an era where there are men turned into boys because they lack this quality, you need someone who will constantly be breaking the circle.

Respect

No matter how you slice it, the biggest reason why countless women have been tanked in relationships is because they pick partners who lack respect.

That is not how you should move.

Pick someone who has utmost respect.

End of discussion.

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jayhustler

A Relationship Expert I give practical advices on self-improvement, self-awareness and Business.