It’s Time To Enter The Lonely Chapter.
There is Nothing Wrong With That.
I recently saw a quote from Charles Bukowski on his book, What Matters Most is How Well You Walk Through The Fire that says,
“If you’re going to try, go all the way. Otherwise, don’t even start. This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives and maybe even your mind. It could mean not eating for three or four days. It could mean mockery — isolation. Isolation is the gift. All the others are a test of your endurance, of how much you really want to do it. And, you’ll do it, despite rejection and the worst odds. And it will be better than anything else you can imagine. If you’re going to try, go all the way.”
And, Yeah, it’s very true. FACTS
Very interesting lines. And very telling.
His point?
Success needs isolation. it’s a personal thing.
One has to stay away from the environment that are not serving him and get rid of all toxic company that keep him stuck.
It is the time of your life that you know what you have to do every single day in order to achieve that specific goal.
It is the time of your life where you come to understand all the sh!t that people are saying about you are not worth of your time since you have the goals to be met.
It is that time where you just don’t rely on motivation and validation anymore. It’s about how bad you really want it. How crazy obsessed are you? Are you willing to pay the actual price?
You feel me?
“You need to have bunch of people around you every time for you to be okay”
(Society)
Lies.
YOU DON’T.
“But, You need Support”
NO.
There is no word support.
You need to figure it all by yourself.
Read this again,
All you need is yourself, a clear mission and the ability to keep going even when things get tough.
It’s about locking in.
It’s You Vs You.
You just don’t need anyone else.
This is the problem with whole generation. We have been sold the concept by the society that being alone is scary while a person is supposed to be surrounded with a bunch of friends and associates in every phase of his/her life.
Which is not true.
And, I think I’m on the right side of history with my opinions that…
9/10 most of nowadays friends have nothing to offer on the table. All they been discussing is about Pop Culture, getting drunk every weekend and politics. Zero ambition!
The only way to stay ahead of the curve is to isolate yourself and attack your goals.
Once you start prioritizing isolation and get things done like reading quality books, hitting the gym, meditation, finding top mentors your entire will change for the better.
I can guarantee you that.
