How To Date Someone Out Of Your League.

jayhustler
4 min readAug 21, 2024

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It Comes Down To These 5 Things.

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I’ve come to realize recently that we have a very serious social problem in this modern world.

And it’s much bigger than you think.

It has spread far across than pandemic.

The number of people struggling to attract their ideal crushes is astonishing.

Am I overreacting by saying that?

Absolutely, Not!

As someone who specializes in dating industry, I’ve spoken to countless men and women who seriously face the same problem.

Okay, let me tell you this…

Dating someone out of your league is not even a rocket science.

Anyone can do that.

But it only comes down to one simple thing.

SYSTEM.

That’s how the entire game has been played.

And this is why I’m going to tell you a secret that is going to help you tremendously in dating someone out of your league.

Effortlessly!

Listen, I’m not taking about the kind of secrets you will hear about on late-night TV infomercials.

I’m talking about real, proven techniques that I’ve tested and perfected over years of work with real men and women in the dating industry.

Take notes!

How To Date Someone Out Of Your League

Hit The Gym 4x Per Week

How do you able to attract higher value women Jay?

I get asked this a lot.

Well, if you knew me 5 years ago I wasn’t!

This is an intentional CHOICE & something I work at daily!

My biggest secret? Gym.

Hitting the 4x a week is how you put the entire odds on your favor when comes to dating someone out of your league.

Fitness plus a proper diet gives you an attractive look and a strong personality.

This is correct and there should be no debate.

A strong physique is pretty universally attractive. Women will pay more attention to you, will be more receptive to you, and they will approach you.

Talking To People Respectfully

I don’t think most people realize how powerful communication strategy is when comes to dating.

Sadly to see many young men and women don’t understand the paradox.

Believe me it’s real.

A person who is presentable and knows how to talk respectfully is unstoppable.

He/she can attract anyone at anytime.

100% science backed claim.

Here are some tips for You:

Relax when you speak.

Keep it simple.

Listen like a detective.

Master the art of story telling.

Lower the pitch of your voice.

Look Presentable When Going Out

Yeah, I get…

I know it’s can be frustrating sometimes

Especially when you put time and effort trying to attract someone out of your league and hit the bricks wall.

But what if I tell you fixing your wardrobe could fix the situation.

Would you buy that? I hope you do!

And that’s how the entire game has been played.

A person who mastered this technique always stands out.

Everything is energy, including your clothes. And the law of attraction says that like attracts like. So people are attracted to like people. Well-dressed people usually gravitate towards other well-dressed people.

Says, School Of Self-image in it’s article “What Are Your Clothes Attracting”

I felt that!

Work On Your Sense Of Humor

Call me old school but if you are not always being witty and funny then you are going to have a very roller coaster ride when comes to dating someone out of your league.

There I said it, Period.

Nobody wants to date a robot.

People always want to get associated with someone who has an unquestionable sense of humor. Not someone who thinks life in linear terms.

Sadly, Most fellas who constant complaining I found they lacked this top quality. No funny side and positivity. They all robots!

You can’t win this game with that.

humor is consistently identified as an important quality in potential romantic partners.

MindOrg.

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Cold Approach 5 Women Per Week

Let’s have a moment of silence for fellas who are laughing on this strategy.

One pattern I’ve noticed among the greatest guys who dated beautifully women (Including me) is this:

They all perfected their craft!

They had zero fear about trying multiple times and get rejected.

The more they tried, the more they became better.

It’s a numbers game, Son!

So quit sitting on the sidelines and thinking about perfection and rejection.

Just hit the road and start!

You will learn about confidence, handling rejection and psychology.

They won’t teach you these in schools.

See you at the top!

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jayhustler
jayhustler

Written by jayhustler

A Relationship Expert I give practical advices on self-improvement, self-awareness and Business.

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