How To Come Off As a High Value Man

jayhustler
4 min readSep 4, 2024

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The Bar is Lower Than You Think…

Men don’t like being told what to do and how to do it. They enjoy their independence in every aspect of their lives.

(Watt Pad)

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I’m enjoying at what is happening in the world right now,

It looks like lots of men who are not paying attention on what it takes to be real men (Simps, Yes men, Nice guys etc.)

Are finally started to pay the actual price,

It’s called EMBERRASMENT.

They have been perceived and treated as a laughing stocks.

Am I surprised? No.

Disappointed? Not.

That’s how nature works.

You just can’t fight gravity!

I’ve been saying this for the last couple of years that…

You must begin to learn how to become a man in your youth. the correct way. so when you reach that age of becoming a man, you can act like it.

And, let’s be real..

It’s true we are living in incredibly uncertain times,

But you can be sure of one thing…

That, if you mastered the art of living like a high value man,

Then you are unstoppable.

Do you wish to be a high value man that everyone desires?

To your surprise, Becoming a high value man isn’t even a rocket science..

The bar to being a high value man is lower than you think…

Read these next few paragraphs.

How To Be a High Value Man

Hit The Gym

I’m going to say something crazy that will upset lots of men here,

Listen to me very carefully…

it’s practically impossible to come off as a high value man if you don’t prioritize hitting the gym.

Don’t listen anyone trying to tell you otherwise.

Hitting the gym 3–5x a week is how you decode the matrix and take back control. Gym will transform your physical and mental healthy 10x better.

One pattern I’ve noticed among high value men is this. they heavily focusing on their image.

Look sharp or get overlooked.

Full stop.

Talk Slowly & Confidently

As a counselor who specializes in men’s issues, I’ve spoken to men guys who were struggling to come off as high value men and one pattern I noticed it was on how they carry themselves.

They all had speech problems. To be specific.

Being a highly value man comes down to having what we call a ‘Distinctive voice’. How you speak highly determine who you are as man. And that’s science.

Do These to Stand Out:

Speak slowly and languidly with a lowered tone.

Never rush and never clenched when talking.

Use inflection (Change your pitch at the end).

Work on chest resonance.

Maintain Eye Contact

During my time as a dating coach, I have seen countless men struggling to boss up in life and appear more influential around their peers.

You know were they all messed up?

Zero Eye contact game.

Mastering the art of eye contact will always give you unfair advantage in life, business and dating, as a man. I wish I was lying!

“Eye contact fosters respect and connection, signaling attentiveness and care in conversations.” Says Prezentium in it’s article, Why is eye contact important?

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Cut Off Sugar

I’m not a mathematician, but if I will have to tell you the number of people who are living miserable lives just because of too much sugar intake, I’m certainly sure we are going to count until Jesus Christ come back.

It’s massively.

Going to be brutal honest here, if you want to change the course of your entire life, for the better then subtract sugar out of your equation. Avoid it like plague. It’s scary!

Too much sugar intake is toxic for your overall health. Can lead to a greater accumulation of fat, which may turn into fatty liver disease, a contributor to diabetes, which raises your risk for heart disease.

Says (Harvard Health)

Dress Well

This is straight forward as it gets, if you want to come off as a high value man with full potentials then you should start dress well. It’s non-negotiable.

Stop overthink it. Prioritize fit. Choose quality over quantity. Dress for the occasion. You should start doing this to be ahead of your peers who are yet not taking advantage of this.

It baffles me to see how countless men dress like boys nowadays. You are a man so dress like one. Research shows that you become 10x more attractive when you dress well.

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jayhustler

A Relationship Expert I give practical advices on self-improvement, self-awareness and Business.