How To Be Mentally Attractive.
Intelligence is Attractive.
I’m attracted to intelligence. Not the book smart type of intelligence. I could care less whether you have gone to college or how much money you make because of it. I like intelligent conversations that make me think even hours after it’s ended.
(Lawrence King)
This is something I will never stop saying,
Physical attraction is good, but what matters a lot is your thinking, your mental level, and your personality.
And let’s be clear here,
Being mentally attractive is not rocket science. Doesn't require you to know everything. It’s about being more confident about who you are and accepting yourself.
I’ve come to realize recently that we have a serious problem in this modern world. It’s much bigger than you think. And it has spread far more than a pandemic.
It is this…
People are way too busy with physical appearance (Their outside world) and neglect investing on the mental side of things.
Backward priorities. If you ask me.
I’ve been saying this for the last couple of years that,
Beauty is attractive. But there is nothing more attractive than talent and intelligence.
My point?
You absolutely need proper balance in life. Investing only in your physical appearance is not enough. You have to make sure you good upstairs as well.
I’m not sure if you are aware, but nothing in this world is more attractive than intelligence.
And this is why I’ve decided to write this article.
It’s going to tell you a secret that is going to help you tremendously in life.
Take notes.
Tips to Be Mentally Attractive
Have ambitions
I say this a lot, but I will say it again, Physical attraction is not enough when it comes to meaningful interactions. You must have something extra. AMBITIONS. Full stop.
It is necessary because it will guide you with your goals and push you forward. With ambitions also, you will start live life in appropriate ways, stay motivated and build up your entire personality for the better.
Highly recommend.
Stand For Something
I’m going to say something that will upset a lot of people but I don’t care.
No one want to get associated with a loser.
If you are a “Yes man” “It’s not my fault” “I don’t have a voice” type of person, then I’ve a bad news for you, you are going to suffer.
Listen, no one likes a person who always complaining, don’t take any responsibility and he/she is not stand for anything. It seems very irritating to others if you always move like this.
So, learn to take full control of your life and have a set of principles. Know who you are and what you stand for. That’s incredibly attractive.
Move With Confidence
One pattern I’ve noticed in mentally attractive people? They always move with confidence. It’s very attractive when someone is confident about his/her outlook and ideas.
A bullet proof self confidence is a quality that you need to cultivate in yourself if you want to be mentally attractive. Sadly, schools don’t teach this.
Be A Good Listener
Something this generation doesn’t seem to understand is this,
A good communication skills will literally solve 99% of your modern day problems. It will make you more valuable and skyrocket your entire personality 10x better.
That’s not debate.
Listen, being a good listener is what people find very attractive in others. People tend to be more attracted to you because they know they can experience healthy conversation with you.
