Funny How Friends Become Enemies When You Start Fixing Your Life.
Every time my life shifted for the better I lost friends.
am I surprised? No.
That’s how life works.
Human Psychology 101.
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Fairytales teaches children about the road to success. Someone starts hustling, accomplishes all of his/her dreams, living a good life and everything is super perfect.
But as you grow up,
You realize that life is not as simple as that.
You have to pay the actual price.
And, One thing I’ve not seen anyone talk about success is this,
The road to self improvement is fully of roll coaster ride.
Self improvement comes with a lot of sacrifices.
And, sometimes you gotta sacrifices the things that you didn’t even want to sacrifice.
“FRIENDSHIPS”
Yes, you read it right.
Your friends will start acting weird when you begin to improve your life.
Sorry to burst you bubble, That’s just the truth,
“How friends become enemies when you start fixing your life”?
The answer is very simple…
People aren’t comfortable being around someone who leads by example. They want someone who does the same things they do, and excludes someone who does otherwise.
It always starts at the point where both sides notice you aren’t doing the same things no more. The way you wake up earlier, the way you don’t sit all day, the way you clean every single day, the way you try to improve yourself little by little.
People want to see you do good, but never better than them. When you start pulling ahead of them, you’ll see everyone’s true colors.
Figuring out that your “friends” might not be friends at all with the way you get excluded when you start your journey is tough.
But nobody said this journey was supposed to be easy.
My point?
You gotta have thick skin and let the nonsense roll of you. Keep staying locked in, keep being purpose driven.
We can all do it kings (and queens).
