Be That Guy.

jayhustler
3 min readSep 26, 2024

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I don’t know about you but I absolutely love what’s happening in the world right now. We are now at a time in history where weak men have been exposed and suffer the consequences of their own actions like never before.

I feel sad about this. At the same time I feel relieved somehow because that’s how it should be. You can’t be weak and expect to be a winner. That’s against the law of nature.

And, I think I’ve this right, someone correct me if I’m wrong. The world is a better place for someone who do the opposite unlike the 99% of population doing. I wish I was lying.

And, let me tell you this for free,

21st Century is the best time in history to be alive. And, it is also a cruel one for those weak fellas.

How to be on the right equation then?

It’s just simple. All you have to do is to understand the rules of the game, be a man and act like one. Everything else is noise.

And this is why this article is in place. Its goal is to equip you with those necessary tips you need to have when comes to how to be that guy and live the life of your destiny.

Embrace Being Uncomfortable

Listen, you are a man. Stand up and be a man. Make hard decisions. Make unpopular decisions. Don’t afraid to make sacrifice and above all become comfortable in your own skin.

One pattern have noticed among weak guys is this, They always look for an easy path. They avoid the cost of success and personal growth which is suffering. It doesn’t work that way.

A moment when you realize that no one is coming to save you and be cool with it is the time you will fulfill your fully potential and skyrocket your personal growth as a man.

Don’t Afraid To Say NO

When do you become a man?

When you get your driver’s license?

When you get a job?

When you have some beards?

Well, you become a man when you will be comfortable telling people NO without even explaining yourself. Saying no for the things that are not align with your personal mission is necessary.

Saying no will give you more time accomplishing your goals. Cut off toxic people & energy vampires and above all it will maximize your personal happiness as a man.

Listen, you don’t need to apologize for saying no. Crazy how many people don’t understand this.

Taking Accountability

Let me tell you this, a superior man is within you. It’s within every single one of us, And the people that have risen to that level were no different than any one of us,

This is they believed it and willing to take responsibility. It wasn’t by the potential, it wasn’t by genetics. It is about being responsible for their own actions and stop the victim mindset card.

That’s what got them there. Simple.

To be that guy you have to follow the same blueprint. Set goals for yourself. Blame no one lese for your situation. Stop chasing instant gratification and play long term games instead.

It’s about Embracing being uncomfortable and trust the entire process.

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jayhustler
jayhustler

Written by jayhustler

A Relationship Expert I give practical advices on self-improvement, self-awareness and Business.

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