4 Relationship Green Lights You Should Know

jayhustler
3 min readNov 16, 2021

Schools ain’t teaching these….

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I have probably spent hundreds, if not thousands of hours trying to figure out how healthy relationships look like and I’ve come to realize there are so many factors people keep overlooking.

They simply don’t understand the game.

I’ve seen countless people keep on complaining that they ended up picking toxic partners and lost their precious time, big time!

I honestly don’t like to see you becoming one. That’s why I have decided to enlighten you about 5 things you should assess and consider if it’s worth your time to stay.

Without understanding these key 5 components then you will experience the same hustle! series of regrets.

To play the game well you just need to know the game effectively. It’s not even a rocket science concept.

Okay, let me not waste your precious time...

Here are 4 Relationship Green Lights You Should Know

1. Words and Behavior Align

As I said before, my intention in this article is to turn your world upside down, wake you up, and give you some relationship green lights you need to notice once you are in.

If your partner's words and behavior align then you are absolutely in a right place. He/she needs to walk his/her talks.

When is apologizing for certain mistakes then that mistake should not happen again. Once say loves you then his/her actions should clearly reflect that.

2. Clearly and Honestly Communication

This is one of the biggest relationship green lights you need to know. Your partner should possess this quality in order to be in this category. You need to count yourself loved once you have a partner who knows how to communicate in an honest manner.

If the case is different then something is wrong. You should seriously take urgent measures.

3. You Will Feel Ease, Heard and Appreciated

If you are in a relationship and not experiencing any one of these then sorry to burst your bubbles, you wasting your time there.

This may sound harsh but I didn’t write this article to coddle. I wrote you to give you clues about what a good relationship feels like.

Once you have a partner who can make you feel at ease, heard, and appreciated then that’s is a greenlight you are in a very amazing place with an amazing person.

4. They Apologize When They Are Wrong

Whenever you are with some who always shows a victim mindset in every situation then you should start finding an exit door immediately. That’s not a green light, it’s a red flag. ‘

You don’t need to be with someone who is not ready to swallow his/her ego. You need someone who is always ready to apologize and fix things. That’s how a healthy relationship looks like.

CONCLUSION.

Most of modern days problems in relationships could be easily solved once people will start to understand some useful and toxic traits among partners. You don’t need to test the water with your own two feet. It will cost you. You just need to know the rules and play accordingly.

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jayhustler

A Relationship Expert I give practical advices on self-improvement, self-awareness and Business.