4 Brutal Ways To Tell If Your Boyfriend is Losing Interest

jayhustler
4 min readOct 22, 2021

You will absolutely be shocked…

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What most people seem don’t to realize is that,

The real loss only occurs when you lose something you love more than yourself.

Trust me on this one, there is no love like a lost love and no absolutely pain like a broken heart.

What might seem like a beautiful love story might ending up like a horror movie, sometimes.

Everything you used to feel proud with might turn upside down. The man who was supposed to keep your heart warmly will easily start destroying it, mercilessly.

Confusing, right?

Yeah, but that’s how love is. Sometimes

But, why all these? well, simple. I will tell you why..

He is simply out of interests.

This may sound harsh but I didn’t write this article to coddle you. I wrote it to give you the real scenario and how you can fix it. Immediately

And I hope you ready. Aren’t you?

Okay, let’s get started

4 Brutal Ways To Tell If Your Boyfriend is Losing Interest

You Are Not Part of His Major Moves

I told you it was a bad news. I have nothing to hide here for you. Being excluded on his major moves is one of the the prime indicator that you can tell that your boyfriend has lost feelings for you.

You will come to discover a lot of his life plans in a very surprisingly fashion. You won’t be a part of them. You will just be an observer. That’s men character when they have had enough with a woman. Sadly but true.

No more Dates Nights and Baecations

Trust me on this one, As a relationship expert I have interviewed hundreds of thousands women who were in a state of despair about their dating lives on what started to be wrong with their partners they all mentioned this one. No more dates nights!

Once you will start experiencing difficultness in having vacations and date nights with your boyfriend know that your relations are in major trouble. You soon going to be alone. He is not yours anymore.

Neglecting go out with you like it used to be before should be your major sign that things are not the same. You don’t need to be a rocket scientist to notice that.

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No More Sextings and Phone Calls

Whenever your phone starting to be dry, just know that you have a work to do. Usually men don’t fancy keeping healthy communication to places they have lost interest. That is scientific fact. No discussion.

You will hardly see his love and sex texts in your phone. You will no longer have his countless voice messages.

In short it is going to be dry and whenever you start chats he will shortly respond with cold answers. Sorry to burst your bubble but as I told you it was a bad news.

Zero Concern With Your Mood and Feelings

Yeah, there I said it. He won’t pay even single attention on how you feel and what you need. He will start treating you like a robot.

You will start experiencing linear treatments. He won’t care if you need help in any area of your life. Sadly but that is the truth.

You might need to share with him a very sensitive issue which highly needs his help and he won’t give you the attention you need. He has lost interest. Nothing to lose. No fear. Just actions. Brutal actions to be specific.

Ways To Tell If Your Boyfriend is Losing Interest
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FINAL THOUGHTS:

As you have seen how men behaving when they have nothing to lose to a certain woman, it’s pretty scary! This is why am always advising my clients to have a plan B and clear exit strategy whenever they fall in love and seeing things started to go upside down.

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jayhustler

A Relationship Expert I give practical advices on self-improvement, self-awareness and Business.